introverted feeling

The introverted feeling type is determined principally by the subjective factor. It differs quite as essentially from extraverted feeling as introverted from extraverted thinking. It is extremely difficult to give an intellectual account of the introverted feeling process, or even an approximate description of it, although the peculiar nature of this kind of feeling is very noticeable once one has become aware of it.The depth of this feeling can only be guessedit can never be clearly grasped. It makes people silent and difficult of access; it shrinks back like a violet from the brute nature of the object in order to fill the depths of the subject. It comes out with negative judgments or assumes an air of profound indifference as a means of defence

APPEARS AS COLD AND RESERVED

(a)

Since the introverted feeling type appears rather cold and reserved, it might seem on a superficial view that such women have no feelings at all. But this would be quite wrong.Such a misunderstanding is a common occurrence in the life of this type, and is used as a weighty argument against the possibility of any deeper feeling relation to the object

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TYPE IS PRINCIPALLY AMONG WOMEN

(b)

It is principally among women that I have found the predominance of introverted feeling. “Still waters run deep” is very true of such women. They are mostly silent, inaccessible, hard to understand; often they hide behind a childish or banal mask, and their temperament is inclined to melancholy

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GUIDED BY SUBJECTIVE FEELING

(c)

The introverted feeling type neither shine nor reveal themselves. As they are mainly guided by their subjective feelings, their true motives generally remain hidden. Their outward demeanour is harmonious, inconspicuous, giving an impression of pleasing repose, or of sympathetic response

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FEELING SELDOM APPEARS ON THE SURFACE

(d)

Introverted feeling is conditioned subjectively and is only secondarily concerned with the object. It seldom appears on the surface and is generally misunderstood. It is a feeling which seems to devalue the object, and it therefore manifests itself for the most part negatively

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WOMAN'S MYSTERIOUS POWER

(e)

Secret feelings give a woman of this type a mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious

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THE AIM IS TO SUBORDINATE THE OBJECT

(f)

The existence of positive feeling can be inferred only indirectly. The aim of introverted feeling is not to adjust itself to the object, but to subordinate it in an unconscious effort to realize the underlying images. It is continually seeking an image which has no existence in reality, but which it has seen in a vision. It glides unheedingly over all objects that do not fit in with its aim. It strives after inner intensity, for which the objects serve at most as a stimulus

CW6 ¶ 638

WHERE EVERYTHING IS FELT

(g)

The primordial images are, of course, just as much ideas as feelings. Fundamental ideas, ideas like God, freedom, and immortality, are just as much feeling-values as they are significant ideas. Everything, therefore, that we have said about introverted thinking is equally true of introverted feeling, only here everything is felt while there it was thought. But the very fact that thoughts can generally be expressed more intelligibly than feelings demands a more than ordinary descriptive or artistic ability before the real wealth of this feeling can be even approximately presented or communicated to the world. If subjective thinking can be understood only with difficulty because of it unrelatedness, this is true in even higher degree of subjective feeling

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COMMUNICATE WITH OTHERS

(h)

In order to communicate with others, it [feeling] has to find an external form not only acceptable to itself, but capable also of arousing a parallel feeling in them. Thanks to the relatively great inner (as well as outer) uniformity of human beings, it is actually possible to do this, though the form acceptable to feeling is extraordinarily difficult to find so long as it is still mainly oriented to the fathomless store of primordial images

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EGOCENTRIC ATTITUDE

(i)

If, however, feeling is falsified by an egocentric attitude, it at once becomes unsympathetic, because it is then concerned mainly with the ego. It inevitably creates the impression of sentimental self-love, of trying to make itself interesting, and even of morbid self-admiration.the intensification of egocentric feeling only leads to inane transports of feeling for their own sake. This is the mystical, ecstatic stage which opens the way for the extraverted functions that feeling has repressed

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PRIMITIVE THINKING

(i-1)

Just as introverted thinking is counterbalanced by a primitive feeling, to which objects attach themselves with a magical force, introverted feeling is counterbalanced by a primitive thinking, whose concretism and slavery to facts surpass all bounds. Feeling progressively emancipates itself from the object and creates for itself a freedom of action and conscience that is purely subjective, and may even renounce all traditional values. But so much the more does unconscious thinking fall a victim to the power of objective reality

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LITTLE EFFORT TO RESPOND

(j)

Introverted feeling makes little effort to respond to the real emotions of the other person. They are more often damped down and rebuffed, or cooled off by a negative value judgment

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NO DESIRE TO AFFECT OTHERS

(k)

The introverted feeling type has no desire to affect others, to impress, influence, or change them in any way. If this outward aspect is more pronounced, it arouses a suspicion of indifference and coldness, which may actually turn into a disregard for the comfort and well-being of others. One is distinctly aware then of the movement of feeling away from the object

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MYSTERIOUS POWER FROM UNCONSCIOUS IMAGES

(l)

The mysterious power of this type comes from the deeply felt, unconscious images, but consciously the introverted feeling type is apt to relate it to the ego, where upon her influence becomes debased into a personal tyranny. Whenever the unconscious subject is identified with the ego, the mysterious power of intensive feeling turns into a banal and overweening desire to dominate, into vanity and despotic bossiness. This produces a type of woman notorious for her unscrupulous ambition and mischievous cruelty. It is a change, however that leads to neurosis

CW6 ¶ 642

TENDS TO OVERPOWER OR COERCE OTHERS

(m)

Although the tendency [of the introverted feeling type] to overpower or coerce the other person with her secret feelings rarely plays a disturbing role in the normal type,some trace of it nevertheless seeps throughin the form of a domineering influence often difficult to define. It is sensed as a sort of stifling or oppressive feeling which holds everybody around her under a spell

CW6 ¶ 642

READINESS FOR PEACEFUL CO-EXISTENCE

(n)

Although, with the introverted feeling type, there is a constant readiness for peaceful and harmonious co-existence, strangers are shown no touch of amiability, no gleam of responsive warmth, but are met with apparent indifference or a repelling coldness. Often they are made to feel entirely superfluous.this type observes a benevolent though critical neutrality, coupled with a faint trace of superiority that soon takes the wind out of the sails of a sensitive person. Any stormy emotion, however, will be struck down with murderous coldness

CW6 ¶ 640

INTENSIVE RATHER THAN EXTENSIVE FEELINGS

(o)

The introverted feeling type's feelings are intensive rather than extensive. They develop in depth. While an extensive feeling of sympathy can express itself in appropriate words and deeds, and thus quickly gets back to normal again, an intensive sympathy, being shut off from every means of expression, acquires a passionate depth that comprises a whole world of misery and simple gets benumbed.To the outside world, or to the blind eyes of the extravert, this intensive sympathy looks like coldness, because usually it does nothing visible, and an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces

CW6 ¶ 641

EGO FEELS SUBORDINATE TO UNCONSCIOUS SUBJECT

(p)

Introverted feeling remains normal so long as the ego feels subordinate to the unconscious subject, and feeling is aware of something higher and mightier than the ego, otherwise it leads to neurosis

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WHEELWRIGHT COMMENTARY

(q)

Introverted feeling types are quite unlike extraverted feeling types. Their feeling arises from a vague inner image resembling that of the introverted thinking type. To get this image across, artistic talent is most helpful

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DIFFICULT TO TALK IN ANALYSIS

(r)

Introverted feeling types frequently find it difficult to talk in analysis, and I think it may have been with them that Jung first started using paintings and drawings

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BREAK WITH TRADITIONAL VALUES

(s)

This type tends to break with traditional values, as their ideasderiving from the basic historical patterns of the mindare very original

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INACCESSIBLE AND SILENT

(t)

Almost hostile to the object, introverted feelers can be inaccessible and silent, appearing indifferent and unfeeling, especially if the outer world presses too hard and has no connection with their inner images

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DULL OR CHILDLIKE APPEARANCE

(u)

Insecure in their surroundings, they may present a dull or even childlike appearance that masks their real personalities. Needing to protect themselves from the external environment, they sometimes belittle or depreciate it

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A WORLD OF ESCAPE

(v)

Introverted feelers seem to have a world of their own where they escape, and where they are at ease. Their behavior may be quite unrelated to the actual circumstances and people around them

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WHEN TOO LONG BOTTLED UP

(w)

Introverted feeling is more intensive than extensive because it is not drained off by an easy adjustment to the outer world. When it has been too long bottled up, it will be expressed in some dramatic or exaggerated act that is inappropriate to the situation and consequently not appreciated

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EXPRESS THEMSELVES SECRETLY

(x)

Individuals of this type often express themselves secretly or allow their emotional intensity to flow unnoticed into those dependent upon them

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TRY TO DOMINATE THE OUTER ENVIRONMENT

(y)

In an attempt to hold their own against their outer environment, the introverted feeling type may try to dominate it. This domination is not disturbing unless it is egotistical; then it becomes a kind of ambition or trickery, especially with women of this type

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